The Freedom and Joy of Having an Only Child

In her captivating and thought-provoking book, journalist Lauren Sandler challenges the stereotypes and myths surrounding only children, while celebrating the joys and benefits of raising a single child. As an only child herself and a mother to one, Sandler delves into what it really means to be an only child and questions whether stopping at one child is the key to balancing motherhood and modern life.

Through her research, Sandler not only gains insights into herself but also shines a light on the societal pressures and assumptions surrounding the decision to have more than one child. Jessica Grose of The New Republic praises Sandler for bringing attention to "the vital part of the conversation that’s not being discussed in the chatter" about parenting. In a time when factors like the recession, modern-day stresses, and environmental concerns are pushing parents to reconsider family size, Sandler's exploration into the unique strengths and happiness often found in single-child families is both enlightening and necessary.

One and Only not only explores the personal and emotional benefits of raising an only child but also delves into the broader implications for economies, environments, and personal freedoms. Nora Krug of the Washington Post remarks that readers will come away from the book feeling "informed and sympathetic," while Lori Gottlieb of The New York Times Book Review praises Sandler for her thorough examination of history, culture, politics, and scientific research.

Through a mix of humor and deep reflection, Sandler presents a compelling argument for the happiness and fulfillment that can come from having just one child. As Randi Hutter Epstein of the Huffington Post notes, Sandler's approach is refreshingly honest and engaging. By the book's end, Sandler suggests that perhaps the key to finding happiness and contentment in the complexities of modern adulthood lies in the decision to have an only child.

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